Actually, this year, we did Ash Wednesday on Monday. Monday is our Family Night and Wednesday is church, so Monday just worked better.
2014 Addition: Trying to get a meal that is in keeping with Ash Wednesday. As I looked on the internet, it looks like meatless or with fish only are the options if we want to do what others who observe it in their Ash Wednesday meal do. We are not big fish eaters here, so I am thinking more along the lines of a heavy cheese dish, bread, etc. Some say eggs are OK, some do not. I have a ham and cheese/pasta casserole that I think may work. I know it has meat, but it is minimal. We don't eat many casseroles, so I think, for my group, if there are not separate meat and starch dishes, it will make the statement for us.
This is the
recipe I am going to use
. It is from About.com Southern food
Baked Macaroni and Cheese with Ham
- 6 tbsp butter
- 4 tbsps. flour
- 1 3/4 cups of half and half
- 1 1/4 cups shredded Swiss cheese
- 1 1/4 cups shredded cheddar cheese (you can use less cheese if desired)
- 1/2 cup Parmesan cheese
- 3 cups of diced ham (maybe 1 cup for these purposes)
- 5 cups cooked macaroni
- 1 cup bread crumbs - half for the inside crunch and half for a topping
- 1/4 cup scallions, diced (optional)
- pepper to taste
Combine Macaroni and Cheese Ingredients
Using a large saucepan melt the butter and add the flour – stir and
gradually stir in your half and half making sure to keep stirring as the
entire mixture thickens.
Pour in your cooked macaroni. Add your
shredded cheese and your Parmesan to the mixture - now you can add half
the bread crumbs and scallions, and add the cubes of ham.
Stir well and pour into a well greased casserole or baking dish.
Bake the Macaroni and Cheese
I'm just going to put the last of
the bread crumbs on the top for a nice crunchy top layer. Bake at 350
degrees about 20 minutes or until the top is crisp.
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We used some ashes made from some leaves we burned. If you get palms this year from Palm Sunday, burn those for next year's ashes...If we have that, we use it.
Then we use some reading from Ken Collins...it's not perfect, but basically he says this and I am quoting,
As you know, Jesus retreated into the wilderness and fasted for forty days to prepare for his ministry. It was, for Him, a time of contemplation, reflection and preparation (and being tempted my the devil, but we don't go into that here
). By observing Lent, most Christians join Him on his retreat.
(In the Scriptures
) ashes represented a time of remorse, repentance and mourning. During Lent, ancient Christians mourned their sins and repented of them, so it was appropriate for them to show their sincerity by having ashes on their foreheads. The custom has persisted in the church as secular society has changed around us.
Some people only celebrate the happy times in Jesus' life...Palm Sunday, Easter Sunday, Christmas...but as true friends (followers
) we should "watch and pray with Him" on Maundy Thursday, "stand by Him at the cross" on Good Friday and retreat with Him into the wilderness during Lent.
On Ash Wednesday, we think about our sin as a family and mark this as the beginning of an extended time to think about Jesus and his time on the earth before the resurrection. We read the above thoughts and put ashes on our foreheads. Then we pray and go to bed.